關於 who would you rather bang ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

From a Challenging, Strengthening 2020, into an ENCHANTING 2021❣️❣️ LONG LIVE OUR SPIRIT🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳🥳 HALLELUJAHHHHH🌻🌻🌻🌹🌿🌿🌿🌱🌱🌱🌱🌱🌱

DEAR FANS & FRIENDS❣️❣️❣️

HELLO AGAIN FOR THIS INCREDIBLE AMAZING NEW YEAR GREETING❣️❣️ HOW DID WE EVER GET THRU THE WHOLE YEAR?? I HAVE NO IDEA❣️ IT WENT SO FAST LIKE A SPEEDING BULLET TRAIN❣️❣️ COULD HARDLY HAVE TIME TO THINK OR UNDERSTAND WHAT IS HAPPENING.. SO FAST AND FURIOUS... COVID, THE SHOCK, THE TRANSMISSION, THE CHAOS, THE FEAR, THE LOSSES, THE SADNESS, THE LAWS, THE RULES, THE POLITICS, THE LOCKDOWNS, THE DISTANCE, THE ZOOMING, THE MASKS, THE HEALTH CARE WORKERS, THE BLESSINGS, THE PRAYERS, THE LOVE, THE KINDNESS, THE FAMILIES, THE BUSINESSES, THE CITY, THE BORDERS, THE QUARANTINE, THE VACCINE, THE WORLD’S NUMBERS INCREASING BY MILLIONS EACH DAY, UNFOLDING PIECE BY PIECE❣️ THE WEATHER❣️ OUR CLIMATE IS SEVERELY AFFECTED & CHANGING. OUR LIVES HAVE CHANGED FOREVER, AND WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN❣️

EVERYONE SAYS 2020 IS THE MOST MISERABLE YEAR THEY CAN REMEMBER. BUT THERE HAS TO BE A MESSAGE. WHAT IS THE UNIVERSE IS TRYING TO TELL US? I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A GUESS. I BELIEVE THE UNIVERSE IS TRYING TO GET US TO REALIZE WE ARE ALL ONE BEING, CONNECTED IN WAYS WE NEVER THOUGHT POSSIBLE BEFORE. THAT EACH AND EVERY ACTION OR THOUGHT THAT WE TAKE CAN INFLUENCE THE NEXT PERSON, THE NEXT EVENT, AND TRANSPORT THAT THRU ALL THE LIVES WE MEET AND TOUCH, SO WHAT WE SAY AND WHAT WE DO IS SO VITAL FOR EACH OTHER. OUR MAIN DIRECTION MUST BE IN LOVE AND LIGHT AND WISHING FOR GREAT HARMONY WITH ALL OF MANKIND & CREATURES ALIKE BECAUSE HOW WE BEHAVE WILL INFLUENCE FUTURE GENERATIONS FOR LIFETIMES. WHEN SOMEONE SHARES LOVE, THE LOVE WILL BE SHARED, AND GROW TALL LIKE A TREE, WITH HEALTHY LEAVES, TRUNK & DEEP ROOTS. WHEN SOMEONE SHARES HATRED, THE HATRED WILL BE SHARED AND GROW TO UNTHINKABLE PROPORTIONS WHICH CAN IGNITE AND CAUSE CATASTROPHIC, IRRETRIEVABLE RESULTS. WHEN WE BREATHE AND EXHALE POSITIVE ENERGY, WE CREATE HARMONY AMONGST OURSELVES & OUR ENTIRE EARTH❣️❣️ LOVE & LIGHT WILL SPREAD FAR AND WIDE❣️

WE’VE ALSO LEARNED TO DEAL WITH THE HAND THAT HAS BEEN DEALT TO US. WE’VE LEARNED HOW TO ENJOY BEING AT HOME CLOSER TO OUR LOVED ONES. HOW CREATIVE WE CAN BE IN OUR DAILY LIVES. HOW WE CAN WALK IN NATURE ENJOYING ALL THE BEAUTY AROUND US RATHER THAN WALK IN A SHOPPING MALL. WE’VE LEARNED JUST HOW MUCH WE ACTUALLY REALLY NEED IN ORDER TO CREATE A JOYFUL LIFE. WE’VE LEARNED HOW MUCH ALL OUR HEALTH CARE WORKERS HAVE SACRIFICED THEMSELVES TO PROTECT OUR WELL BEING. WE’VE LEARNED HOW TO DEEPLY APPRECIATE & HAVE ENORMOUS GRATITUDE TO EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING AROUND & FOR ALL THAT WE ALREADY HAD IN OUR LIVES.

2020 HAS BEEN AN INCREDIBLY URGENT WAKE UP CALLING YEAR FOR EVERYONE… LET’S PAY SERIOUS ATTENTION TO THIS ALARM AND KNOW THAT EVERY LOVING, THOUGHTFUL, SINCERE GESTURE OR ACTION YOU TAKE, NO MATTER HOW SMALL OR SIMPLE IS GOING TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE TO CREATE A DYNAMIC GREATER GOOD❣️❣️❣️BLESSINGS & PRAYERS TO THOSE WHOM HAVE LOST THEIR LIVES, THEIR JOBS, THEIR FRIENDS, THEIR BUSINESSES., FAMILIES WHOM ARE GRIEVING THEIR LOVED ONES AND STRUGGLING AT THIS TIME. LET’S WORK TOGETHER TO HELP THOSE WHOM ARE GOING TO HAVE MORE HEARTACHE AND CHALLENGES AHEAD OF THEM. WE HAVE THE POWER TO DO THIS. WE CAN DO IT TOGETHER❣️❣️❣️ LET’S WORK TOGETHER AS ONE TO MAKE 2021 A GREAT YEAR FOR OURSELVES AND EVERYONE AROUND US?❣️❣️ I’M GOING TO MAKE THAT MY NEW YEARS RESOLUTION❣️ LET’S MOTIVATE OURSELVES TO DO SOMETHING, ANYTHING, THAT WE CAN BE PROUD OF AND KNOW THAT WE CAN, AND WILL, CREATE A DIVINE LIFE PURPOSE TO OURS AND OUR FUTURE GENERATION’S LOVING DESTINATION❣️❣️

FOLLOW OUR HEARTS❣️❣️❣️❣️ WE WILL COME OUT OF 2020 BETTER THAN GOING IN WITH THE HAPPIEST NEW YEAR EVER❣️❣️ 2021 HERE WE COME❣️❣️❣️

FAITH CAN MOVE MOUNTAINS❣️❣️❣️❣️ ALWAYS YOURS, SALLYYYYYYY❣️❣️❣️

❣️❣️❣️ NEW YEARS GET GO ❣️❣️❣️

I WANTED TO INVITE EVERYONE WHO HAPPENS TO BE FREE ON JANUARY 11TH, 2021 AT 9:30PM, TO HAVE A HAPPY 2021 VIRTUAL “GET GO” CHAT ON ZOOM❣️❣️ CARE TO JOIN ME? HOPE YOU CAN MAKE IT❣️ I’LL BE ON AT THE TIME ABOVE SO I HOPE TO SEE YOU ALL AND START THE NEW YEAR WITH A BIG BANG❣️❣️❣️ LOOKING FORWARD EVERYONE❣️ MEANWHILE.. HAVE THE MOST MEANINGFUL AND LOVING NEW YEARS EVE COUNTDOWN TO 20211111111111❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

親愛的粉絲和朋友們❣️❣️❣️

你們好呀❣️ 再次向大家送去這份真摯的新年祝福❣️全世界範圍內 我真是不敢相信我們是怎樣熬過這一整年的？？ 歲月如高鐵動車一般飛逝，幾乎都沒時間去細想到底發生了什麼... 那麼急速又殘忍.. 疫情、驚嚇、傳播、混亂、恐懼、逝去、悲傷、法律、秩序、政治、封鎖、距離、遠程視頻，口罩、醫護工作者、祝福、祈禱、愛、善意、家庭、生意、城市、國界、隔離、每天全世界範圍內數以百萬計的感染者數字的增長，都盡現眼前❣️ 還有天氣❣️ 我們的氣候已經被嚴重地影響和改變了。我們的生活也隨之永遠發生了改變。我們再也回不到過去了❣️

大家都說2020是有記憶以來最悲慘的一年。但這樣不幸的一年一定也承載了它的訊息。宇宙這是在試圖告訴我們什麼呢？我想做一個猜想：我相信宇宙希望我們意識到所有人都是一體的，我們正在以從前根本未曾想過的方式連繫在一起。我們做出的每一個行動或抱持的每個想法，都可能影響到下一個人、下個事件，甚至將波及到所有遇見的生命。所以我們的每句話、每個行為對他人都是何其重要。我們的前進方向應當是奔向愛，擁抱光芒，並與全人類和所有生物和諧共處。我們的行為將會不可逆轉地影響到下一代。當人們開始分享愛，愛也會由此傳播出去，有如會不斷長高的大樹，有著茂盛的樹葉、強壯的枝幹和穩固的根基。反之，當人們開始散布仇恨，仇恨便也會以你意想不到的方式成倍增長，最終引發無可挽回的災難。當我們呼吸的都是正能量，我們自己和整個地球都可以創造出和諧❣️ 愛和光就能傳播到更遠的地方❣️

我們已經學會如何坦然面對生活所賦予我們的一切，享受安心在家與至親至愛相處的生活。日常生活中我們可以變得如此地充滿創造力，會開始享受在被美景環繞的大自然中徒步，而不只是閒逛商場。我們終於明白了創造幸福的生活到底需要些什麼，知道了我們的歲月靜好，不過都是因為醫護人員在替我們負重前行，也學會了感恩 —— 感恩身邊的所有人，所有事，和我們擁有的一切。

2020是一個對所有人來說都值得警醒的一年... 經歷過這些我們更應該認識到勿以善小而不為的意義，小心翼翼地走好帶著愛、體貼和真誠的每一步，不論它是多微不足道，都會帶給這個世界更多更大的善意❣️❣️❣️ 我們也為那些失去生命的人們祈福；為那些丟掉工作、失去朋友、不得不關掉生意的人們祈禱和祝福；為那些痛失所愛的家庭和正在掙扎的所有人祈禱和祝福。讓我們一起去幫助在將來可能要面對更多心痛和挑戰的人們吧❣️ 我們有能力這樣做，我們可以一起這麼做❣️❣️❣️ 讓我們一起把2021變成對我們自己和周圍人來說更好的一年❣️❣️ 我會把這個作為我的新年願望❣️ 讓我們行動起來，做任何值得我們引以為傲的事情。相信我們可以，也能夠，找到一個於己、於人、於後世都有利有愛的人生方向❣️

跟隨我們的內心❣️❣️❣️❣️ 我們將以更好的姿態走出2020迎接最快樂的一個新年❣️❣️ 2021我們來啦❣️❣️❣️

信念可以戰勝一切❣️❣️❣️❣️ ALWAYS YOURS, SALLYYYYYYY❣️❣️❣️

❣️❣️❣️ 向新年出發 ❣️❣️❣️

我也想邀請所有剛好在2021年1月11日晚上9:30有空的朋友們，參加我們的2021 “準備出發” ZOOM視頻聊天❣️ 想和我一起嗎？希望你們能來❣️ 我會準時上線，希望能見到大家，新的一年可以一起向前❣️❣️❣️ 非常期待❣️ 同時… 也祝你們有個充滿意義、溫馨和愛的20211111111111新年倒數❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

[出走地平線：性與電影]
Flattening The Curve: Sex and Cinema

在情色片或不同的文化中，床第之事都是例行公事：你做這個，總會讓大家進入…然後我再這樣做，「啪！」完事了。

但一部想宣揚肢體美學的電影不是這回事。電影中的性愛場面尤如地雷陣，進入這地帶，顯露我們的恐懼、不安和對自已的真正看法。

所以拍性愛戲時，我們的步履會輕柔一點…先讓演員明白大家都小心謹慎，你不必做這個做那個…但如果所有都借位拍攝，又會變成一部爛A片：性愛變成一場表演，而不是真正分享一種經歷、經驗和樂事。

在我的經驗中，這關乎於（跟好的性愛一樣）信任。作為攝影師，我是床戲最密切的人，也是參與者。我嘗試讓觀眾感受那種燈光、潮紅、甜蜜和熱情澎湃的感覺，體驗它應有的生命。

現實中，不少人做愛的原因，是因為他們酒醉到連交歡的對象也不清楚，又或是做過甚麼。

在電影世界裡，我們也要找到類似的空間：一個被棄置，帶給別人意想不到會發生甚麼事的地方。

我喜歡拍性愛戲。我深信在分享私密之間，讓電影變得更真切。

In porn and in many cultures, bedrooms sex is just programmed : you do this, which takes us there ...then I do this and "bang" we are done.

That doesn't quite work if a film intends to celebrate our bodies. Sex in film is a field of landmines, a terrain that most reveals our fears, insecurities and what we really feel about ourselves.

So we tread lightly ... we re-assure that this will be discreet and you don't have to do this and that .... but when it gets too technical， it's just like bad porn : a performance rather that an event or experience or a pleasure shared.

In my experience it has to be ( like e good sex ) about trust. As a cameraperson, I am the closet to the act. I am a participant. I am trying to give your experience the light and flush and sweet and exuberance that this wonder of life deserves.

In the "real world", people often have sex because they were too drunk to know who they are with, what they were doing.

In the film world, we have to find a similar space: a space of abandon and giving the unexpectedness of actually doing something you never thought you would or could.

I like sex scenes. I believe the secrets shared are what makes our films so true.

圖：《仙人掌旅館》(1997)劇照
Photo : Still from Motel Catus (1997)

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