Kepada mereka yang selalu ke outstation samada untuk urusan rasmi ataupun bercuti, ketika menginap di hotel, cuba amalkan perkara-perkara yang berikutnya :
1) Selepas check in, ketuk pintu dulu sebelum masuk bilik. Buka pintu dan bagi salam. Kita tak tahu dalam bilik tu ada 'benda' atau tidak. Sekurang-kurangnya kalau ada tu, 'dia' tahu kita ni jenis beradab.
2) Kasut/selipar tu kalau boleh jangan disusun rapat. Salah satu sengaja terbalikkan. Kerana 'benda' ni mereka suka 'm...
Continue ReadingTo those who are always on the outstation for official affairs or holidays, while staying in a hotel, try to practice the next things:
1) After checking in, knock on the door first before entering the room. Open the door and greet. We didn't know there was ' thing ' or not in the room. At least if there were, ' he ' knows we're the civilized type.
2) Those shoes / slippers if possible, don't be arranged closely. One of the deliberately turned upside down. Because of this ' thing ' they like to ' try ' our stuff. When tried with something ' bad ', he'll stay there, not so ' him ' follows us home.
3) If the window cloth is closed and the day is still noon, open the cloth and window for a moment. According to Chinese faith, by opening this window, the ' heat s' from the outside will enter to fill the inside and anything that is ' cool ' inside will come out. Short said, make sure the room has air circulation.
4) Knock, and open the bathroom door and put the lights on and leave the door open (for a moment), also for air circulation purposes because the bathroom is the ' coolest ' room in a hotel room and don't forget too, flush right Toilets once (aim to remove negative aura that may have been long-stoned) and open the pili to let water flow for a while and wash hands and feet.
5) If you're the only one and given a twin room, fill up one of those beds with items like bags, clothes, pants, documents and pillows that are not used if possible, put it in the bed you're going to sleep.
If you get a room with Queen or King type bed, use it to all the pillows that have and sleep in the bed. Don't just sleep beside me and leave the other side empty.
6) When going to bed, leave one of the lights in the room installed or at least apply the lights in the bathroom and leave the door open. It's not that we don't know, that ' thing's most like to disturb when it is dark
7) Always practice reading prayers for peace, peace and safety before, during and after sleep. We each have our own way.
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There's once, our friend, Asrul (not real name) went to Melaka on the official affairs of the ministry. It's normal, this ministry and department have a lot of business around the country. From Kuala Lumpur, he drove and took about 2 hours to get to Melaka.
As soon as he was in Melaka, he immediately checked in at a boutique hotel located on the side of Sungai Melaka. The hotel from the outside to the inside is beautiful. This As is also satisfied with the room he got. Since he only took the single room, the size of the room is not big. Enough for just one person but the cleanliness and decoration in the room is really tip top. Nothing is less. Set up the room like this; when entering, the wardrobe is on the right and the door to the bathroom on the left. And the side of the wardrobe continues to connect with the writing table and after the writing table is the single bed she is crossed and television is placed on the wall.
This As, after he put all his stuff in the closet and washed his face, he also came back to travel around Melaka City. Luckily the hotel he was inap is around the tourist focus area so it's easy for him to walk there.
After Asa hosted her appetite at one of the caffe near her hotel, she also walked back. When she came back to her room just now, she was surprised to see her bathroom door closed because the time she was out just left open. As thought maybe he forgot that he was closing the bathroom door just now so he didn't even think much.
When As was in the shower, she kept washing her hair, suddenly she heard a sound like her bathroom door was opened. He quickly swallowed a curtain shower and saw the door still closed. Hmmm..... sounds from the next room. So he continued his bath again and after finishing, he came out to take clothes from the bag. The joy of her seeing one of the closet doors open. ′′ Eh... when will I open this ha ′′ he asked himself. Without thinking long, he took his shirt and pants back and put the bag back into the closet and closed it back.
During the middle Assembly of Fast & Furious shows on television glass, suddenly from her left eye she noticed something was moving around the entrance so she kept turning to look more clear. Apparently, the wardrobe door opens back and the bathroom door closes. ′′ It's different like this ′′ his heart moves. So As also walked into the wardrobe and closed the wardrobe back and he turned the bathroom door button. Her bathroom door button is the type that doesn't have a lock button because the paired lock is the type of flick we pull and push. But the door cannot be opened. Here you go!
......... Bathroom door locked inside.
As is starting to feel scary, but he strengthens his spirit by reading the Seat verse over and over again and over again knocking on the bathroom door locked from inside and suddenly he heard something. The sound behind a locked door is like someone's voice from the bathroom asking ′′ You want to enter? Hehehehehe ′′ The As's rome hair is gone.
Then he grabbed the room lock and he kept moving down to the lobby. She told the receptionist who was on duty that her room had ghosts. Receptionist eyes bought to see after hearing what came out of As's mouth. As told miss receptionist that her bathroom door was locked from the inside and there was a voice laughing from the inside.
Spooked, the miss immediately asked a colleague of her coincidentally there to accompany her As back to the room to investigate.
After they both went to the Assembly room, they were shocked to see the condition of his messy room. Blankets, pillows, clothes are on the floor, some are hanging on television. Her clothing bag that is actually in the closet is now in the middle of the room and looks like it's dismantled. Papers needed for official affairs are covered at the writing desk, and in the chair.
The hotel worker who accompanied As just now rejected the bathroom door and was shocked to see the situation inside. Shower curtain torn, all the toiletries on the floor, and his eyes saw something on the wall. He called As ′′ Bang bang, come see what this is?" As also entered and stunned to see a writing on the bathroom wall. Just one word...... GET OUT!!!!!
As what else, it's really not as fast as lightning as he's worried about all of his items that were in the room with the help of that hotel worker just now. While packing up, the lights in the room started to swallow several times and the television show channel changed by myself. When they left the room in a hurry, when closing the door they both heard female voices judging from the bathroom. In fear, they were viewing each other, As and hotel workers kept accelerating down the lobby.
As that night kept checking out of the hotel and with the help of the receptionist, she managed to be placed in another hotel nearby. However, that night the US couldn't sleep well because I keep thinking about the incident he had before. Short said, he fell asleep making the room lights all paired.
Since from the experience incident that night, every time As is on the outstation, he will always remember to do the above 7 things and he said alhamdullilah, until now, everything is smooth and disturbance free.
That's all my donation for this time.
Hope you all are entertained hehehehe....
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Good morning!
Here's a little sample of our RMO schedule! We're technically on day 17 of voluntary self-quarantine and have a little routine going-on which has been so pivotal to everyone's sanity!
Having a structure helps to manage expectations allowing for lots of freedom within boundaries, a key principle of Respectful Parenting. It helps everyone take ownership with a semblance of control over all the things we can't control!
One of the big things (that I highly recommend!) we did as a family when we knew we would have to potentially self-quarantine for 4-6 weeks with our family medical history as well as with my work travel was sit down as a family and talk about what was important to us.
We live in a 1500sqft apartment and haven't left these four walls. 😅😅❤️ We have a balcony but other than that, we've not gone to other public common areas which made it very important that we make our home, a safe, loving, fun, haven instead of prison walls.
The best way for success was for all of us to talk about what was important to us. What we needed on the schedule to find our happy.
For mama and daddy, it was making sure that we had set time for us to work and for Ella Grace, she wanted to have morning meetings and a few other special mentions like morning snuggles, cooking together, play time.
This is by no-means a be-all ends-all, it will look different for every family depending on what you and your littles find important. The key is just that with a structure and framework, it allows everyone to breathe and create, have fun and be present without worrying about what's happening next which is especially important for little ones.
This schedule while very thought out, is flexible. We don't micromanage at all and there are no set times where something has to be done at a specific time (outside of her medicine schedule!). Listen to your gut, mamas. It's your superpower!
Ps. Can you tell which part of the day this picture was taken?
I wrote it up on our "command center" which are these giant sliding glass doors that we have in our kitchen. We use chalk pens and write our favorite quotes, grocery list, schedule, family goals, etc and it's easily wipeable!
On the left are "special" things that we get to do by the day along with suggestions on play ideas if she's stumped and on the right, our running schedule that I want to reiterate again, looks very long and complicated but is just more of a loose framework and structure!
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It's great for families wanting to get a clearer and on the same page on how to reach their mama and daddy goals and something that has radically changed the way I love, lead, and mama! If you’re interested in signing up for it after Covid is over, come have a chat w me!
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RMO SCHEDULE
❤️ Morning snuggles
A loving quiet start for everyone, good morning hug or snuggles or just quiet time together as they wake up
❤️ Make breakfast with daddy
Ella Grace's favorite time w daddy - they make coffee and breakfast together. While not limited to this, because breakfast is usually her choice, I also list down some options to help her.
❤️ Medicine
Ella Grace has daily medicine that she has to take so putting it on the schedule helps her get a sense of what happens when since much of our routine has changed. It also helps everyone not forget!
❤️ PLAY!
Such an important part of her day, we allow for lots of time for free play and exploration. She plays independently and happily while daddy and mama work.
Her favorite options include dress-up, role-play, restaurant, construction, magnatiles, podcasts, games, art table, dancing, scooter, forts, obstacle course, sensory etc.
She has free run on our little apartment and her imagination is her limit. Freedom within boundaries!
❤️ Movement
We try to move together as a family everyday for at least 20-30mins of vigorous activity. Movement helps your brain get to a theta state which helps with focus and understanding new information which is great for both adults that need to work and littles that need to play and learn!
Movement when you're shut it also helps regulate your hormones and keeping your body active will not just help you feel good physically but also mentally.
Some of our favorite ways to move together are family yoga, dance party, zumba, workout video, HIIT circuit, etc
❤️ Morning snack
Studies have also shown that a good snack or meal after activity helps little ones to sustain this theta state longer.
Also, mama is hungry and doesn't want to be hangry!
❤️ Morning meeting
This was beautifully one of the biggest requests Ella Grace wanted when we asked what was important to her. It's a little circle time that she usually has at school and it gives everyone safe space to come together, talk about what's on their mind or what's happened, as well as sets up expectations for the day by going through what day it is, what our plans are, etc.
❤️ Play/work
Another space to independently work and play and using some key Respectful Parenting principles after connecting (morning meeting, family movement, snack etc) to disconnect.
Fueling up their love tanks allows this space to largely remain uninterrupted, productive, and happy!
❤️ Lunch
We usually have a simple lunch - sandwiches, wraps, leftovers, soup and rice, one-pot meals, etc
❤️ Nap
Ella Grace cleans up and changes into her pjs for a little nap after lunch. She has a little eye mask and sleeping bag that she drags out to the living room sometimes to be close to us while we work or she might take a nap in her room or our room.
Our boundary is just that her body has to rest so we are quite flexible and work with her so she feels like she has some amount of ownership in it which helps with cooperation!
❤️ Afternoon snack
We take a little break together and have an afternoon snack/tea/coffee and just check in with one another (there's that connect to disconnect again!)
❤️ Play/work
Ella Grace usually spends this time playing but mostly lots of movement-based play like dancing, scooting, rocking/jumping on her balance board, etc
❤️ Cooking/TV time
I start preparing dinner and Ella Grace usually will help me cut, wash, etc and when she's done helping, she gets a little tv time while I finish up. Her favorite shows currently are The Wiggles, Hi-5, Fireman Sam, Paw Patrol
❤️ Dinner
Mealtimes are special for our family. It's our chance to connect and eat together so we try to really be present. Put our phones away, sit down at the table or if we're having dinner outside, on the mat or bench together, set up and clean up together so it's a family activity.
❤️ 20-min shakedown
This is a fun clean-up game that we play at the end of the day. We set up a timer for 20mins and quickly try to clean up as much as we can.
The only rule is that at the end of 20mins we stop and walk away. It makes the clean-up less overwhelming and also elicits participation from everyone because there is a certain end time that doesn't get extended no matter what, making it much easier to get everyone to participate the next time too.
You'd be amazing how much we can get done in 20mins! In our little apartment, having free reign to play throughout the day allows us to not have to micromanage but also not go nuts from the mess. We pick up here and there throughout the day but the 20min gives us a nice reset for the next day while making it not feel like a big task.
❤️ Movement
We usually have some sort of movement - epic dance party is one of our very favorites. If it's been a very busy tiring day, we might play a song and stretch, meditate or do wind down yoga instead. There are no hard and fast rules, just again time to move and listen to our bodies.
❤️ Bath/Shower
Ella Grace takes her own shower and this is also usually when she brushes her teeth, takes her medicine, etc.
❤️ Night Meeting
Similar to morning meeting, it's a little circle to come together and debrief from our day together. We usually play Happy/Sad/Grateful which is the highlight for everyone. We do a little breathing and love shower after, read a few books then end with prayer before Ella Grace goes to bed and mama and daddy get some mama and daddy time!
Hope this helps!
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