關於 class a b c site ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 確定開課 澳洲正向親職 [ 青少年課程 Group Teen Triple P ] 情境教養權威 何惠玉老師

想增進親子關係 ? 家庭氣氛😔不和諧? 覺得另一半是你的長子or長女，有時候幫不上忙? 想跟孩子坐下來好好聊天，但他們只想跟📱 3C產品對話?

當父母很辛苦吧! 正在經歷的我們，都知道大不易 …… 也常常覺得力不從心，為什麼覺得有些要求對孩子好的，他們幾乎不買單!! Ex. 手機用超時、不做家事、沒有責任感，或是青少年的💥脾氣一上來，溝通起來就像累世冤親債主……

那請您花點時間看完這支家長💕的課後心得分享影片，就會知道我們真的很愛孩子，原來我們還可以透過學習，重新看見自己的孩子是有無限可能，原來親子關係是可以有SOP的！

這群父母各有1 - 4個寶貝👧👦孩子，年紀從2歲至近20歲；還有好幾位離婚後撫養孩子的單親爸爸、媽媽，雖然大家的家庭組成不一樣，但為了孩子他們都願意來學習，也有許多成長跟收穫呢！

下一期 🤟 保證開課囉，如果您在外縣市或是有事需要請假，我們有ZOOM 線上同步課程跟補課機制，歡迎您的加入，一起學習。

有事詢問請加入 HERO PAPA Line，請搜尋id @HeroPapa

或按此連結 https://lin.ee/5M8aoNW ，即可以加入 HERO PAPA Line 好友，為您服務。

期待未來跟您一起學習，讓教養之路不孤單 🙂
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確定開課 澳洲正向親職 [ 青少年課程 Group Teen Triple P ] 教養權威 何惠玉老師

📆 日期： 4/11、4/18、4/25、5/9、5/16 ( 五個週日下午，如要請假會有補課機制)

⏰上課時間 : 13:30-16:30 (常常上到五點都欲罷不能!)
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我們都是愛孩子的爸媽，但是卻常常用錯方式表達，傳遞出反效果的愛。
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藉由五堂有邏輯結構性的學習，讓父母可以用正確方式，給予孩子感受到愛的能力，居然就是最快速拾回親子關係的撇步!

想知道我們怎麼讓孩子一起開家庭會議達成共識外，定期舉辦會議也會是情感交流，而不是束縛！

透過行為合約來管理問題行為，讓孩子漸漸養成獨立負責的態度!
處理青少年情緒也有ＳＯＰ！怎樣理性溝通讓雙方都滿意，實戰經驗告訴你是真的可以做得到的！

✨若有興趣，請別遲疑，立刻按下連結訂下您的位子： https://mr6.com/parenting-class/

📕 什麼是 Triple P 課程 (三個P課程) ?
「Positive Parenting Program」（父母正向親職課程），是由澳洲學者Matthew R. Sanders教授經過二十多年研究，獲得澳洲昆士蘭政府的資助，亦被推廣至美國、英國、德國、紐西蘭、香港與新加坡多個國家或地區。此技巧總共涵蓋五堂課，每堂兩個小時至三個小時，讓您知道要如何正向養育子女、也讓您可以分享給其他的父母親，或用在自己往後的相關工作上。

💻Triple P Implementation | Official Corporate site
https://www.triplep.net

👉 好消息！

害怕後面的日期無法配合？無法來上課？有一位媽媽也表示因為疫情，是否可比照國外改用線上ZOOM聽課、或補課？
答案是：O.K.！我們這一屆將開放線上上課（同時間），若當天有事要請假，可以後面再約時間補課。因此，若以上五個日期有哪一天不行來參加，您只要下載ZOOM App或用電腦看ZOOM，無論是當天或後面幾天，都可以上課。

【重要：不過，如果可以到現場來，我們非常建議您還是戴口罩在保持社交距離的情況下前來現場上課，以達原本的效果】

📕教材 & 上課方式：
澳洲 Triple P 原裝教材
澳洲 Triple P 課程原版影片
情境演練 / 小組討論
回家執行後困難解惑 Q & A

👉如果您家中青少年 (10-16歲) 有以下情況，來上課學習怎樣當孩子最佳夥伴!
-- 不想上課 / 寫作業，我只想玩手機遊戲
-- 請孩子幫忙做一點事就很不耐煩
-- 無來由生氣 發怒，不能控制自己情緒
-- 我長大了，可以單獨去朋友家住幾晚玩吧!為什麼不可以?
-- 父母關心訓話時，孩子會開始嘆氣...
-- 離婚了，很煩惱孩子教養問題怎麼處理，沒有人可以問...

👉 其實只要是以下這些父母，都很適合上喔!
A群：專屬12歲以上的青少年煩惱
B群：專屬0-12歲的小朋友的早期教養（腦神經科學）
C群：專屬離異中或高衝突父母的教養困擾與擔憂
D群：極為忙碌、無法投入太多時間的忙碌父母

🎤 講者： 何惠玉 老師簡介 ( Triple P 認證講師 )
多年家事法庭協調委員經驗，讓何老師一直尋找可以協助父母在經營家庭上課程。在2019年年底遠赴倫敦參加 Triple P師訓課程，發現這套課程沒有講過多心理學論述，而是藉由許多情境，引導家長逐步運用溝通技巧進而改善親子關係。
學歷：紐西蘭Cantebury大學心理學學士碩士畢業
經歷：桃園地方法院家事庭調解委員、紐西蘭基督城心理諮詢師、紐西蘭Chinese Weekly專欄作者、Asian Bridge兩性親密關係專欄作者
專長：專攻兩性親密關係、婚姻與家庭的心理學領域

👛 費用：$4500/人

🏡 地點： 台北市 捷運 南京三民 附近

👉 主辦： 英雄爸爸股份有限公司

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦同學心得分享

➡ 需要老師跟一群同學學習，比自己看書來的有效率
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“看很多坊間很多親子教養的書，都講的很好，可是卻很難執行......透過這堂課的實際操作還有討論，讓我可以慢慢的把理論轉換成行動。雖然做不到位，但是有問題都可以跟同學還有老師請益互動，一點都不孤單。“
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➡ 收起自己的情緒，孩子也漸漸少了暴走時刻
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“ 要改變自己身為家長權威很難，但是在課程引導過程中，讓我開始審視自己是否可以收起情緒，接納孩子反覆心情，也可以🤔同理為什麼他有這些反應。然後用課程中技巧跟孩子進行理性溝通，真的在短時間之內，互動有很大差異呢！”
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➡ 父母親的我們也需要學習
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王愛珠 / 家庭教育專業人員 & 家事法庭調解委員
正向管教親職課程是很棒的課程，因為：
時光是一條長河，在歲月的長河裡，孩子會長大，父母👨👵會老。
教錯了，影響孩子的未來人生，作為父母親你要擔心的是你老了，孩子會將你對他的教養回報到你的身上。
不要讓自己後悔，因為人生沒有後悔藥，教養孩子不能重來，為了你自己 你的孩子
趕快來學習正向親職課程！
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✨若有興趣，請別遲疑，立刻按下連結訂下您的位子： https://mr6.com/parenting-class/

反對黨中選定候選人楊美盈的一篇介紹自己的英文文章，從這篇文章可以看得出它的架構完全是依魅力故事學的角度來講。（也隱著Joseph Campbell英雄之旅的影子，連這個也講給你們聽，我已經夠慈悲了）。

細節不要問我，除非你是我的學生，就可以在秘密社團討論。

其餘的，若不是我的學生，可以報名 5 月 25 和· 26 日的 《江魔式毒辣NLP》

Entering into Politics - The Story Behind. By Yeo Bee Yin（杨美盈）
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"Why are you involved in politics?" I think this is the question my family members, friends, and many others will ask.

It's a long story. I am writing this story today to make sure that, if ever, I forget what am I in politics for, it will serve as a reminder.

Part I: The Beginning - Seed of Love

It all started in 2001 with my first Fast and Pray for Malaysia. Since then, I started to see Malaysia very differently and began to sow the seed of love for this nation. I remember I was only 18 years old then. Looking back now, I realized, I too, can be a part of the answered prayer. How marvellous.

Part II: Years on Distant Shores

No, I am not a super patriotic person that nothing else matters to me beside Malaysia. Being a 'kampung' girl, I dreamed of going overseas - to study, to work and to see the world.

Part II (a): Eyes Opened

My dream finally came true in my fourth year in UTP. I was offered a 6-month internship placement in BASF world biggest chemical site in Ludwigshafen, Germany. As a chemical engineering student, and being the first student in UTP to get the offer, it was indeed was a great blessing for me.

Internship in Germany was my first taste of international exposure as they take interns from all over the world to Germany. I spent countless of hours with some of these friends here discussing about just about anything under the sun.

In Germany, the church that I attended was Rhein River Baptist Church, which is a church of the American army who are based in Mannheim. I was one of the few non-military church members there. Through my interaction with the American armies, I began to understand what "Democracy", "Liberty" and "Patriotism" really mean.

During my stay in Germany, I also took the opportunity to travel to neighboring countries like France, Italy, Luxembourg and England. It was in these trips that changed my world view about culture, nation, development etc.

Before coming to Europe, as a top student, I thought I knew a lot. After I came here, I realized how little I knew about the world. I began to question why in Malaysia we did not learn a more complete world history, different political systems, different ideologies, arts and culture? Neither have we been taught to think critically and objectively. I began to realize that what we've been taught in the schools have been crafted in such a way that we can be easily manipulated if we are not careful. Our syllabus was (and still is) flawed and politically biased.

I have to admit that before coming to Germany, I was an ardent supporter of Dr Mahathir and his legacy. I read his book, watched his documentary, supported the blind protection of GLCs and race-based affirmative action, thinking that it's true 'patriotism'. (You can see how brain-washed I was then.)

Six months of internship in Germany has completely changed my world view , my eyes began to open, my previous perceptions shattered and I began to see things very differently. There is actually a much BETTER way for Malaysia.

I was 22 years old then.

Part II (b): A Disheartened Young Malaysian

After the internship, I came back to Malaysia to finish my study in UTP and graduated in 2006. Before I finished my study in UTP, I received offer from my dream university, Cambridge University, for a program called MPhil in `Advanced Chemical Engineering. I was so happy! So I started to apply for funding from various organizations. I didn't get any. Although disappointed, I wasn't blaming anybody as I understood that nobody was obliged to fund me. Despite financial difficulties in his business in 2006, my dad agreed to fund my study in Cambridge.

However, I still had one problem. I was bonded to Petronas for 10 years and was supposed to serve my bond after I finished my study in UTP. So I wrote to Petronas again to ask for deferment of service until after I finished my master degree in Cambridge. A few weeks later, I was called to come to the education unit. I really thought everything was gonna to be ok. There, I saw a nice guy, he told me that the program was great and he really wanted to help, but it was in the policy that they couldn't allow any deferment for the bond or I would have to pay up my bond in lump-sump. My dream crashed.

I did not blame Petronas for that, as they were just following the contract and it would be a havoc if every scholar would come and ask for deferment or for more funding. I understood that. However, it was a small incidence in the education unit that made me utterly disappointed with how things work in Malaysia. While waiting at the lounge, I met two returning scholars from Nottingham University, UK. I started to talk to them. After a while, an education unit guy came and met them, I accidentally saw their results - one of them get second class lower and the another one a third class. That blasted my mind. Here I was, with a CGPA of 3.95/4.00 begging only for 1 year of deferment, not even a scholarship, but was denied. Here they were, spent 4 years in the UK fully sponsored and yet graduated with mediocre results.

Am I not as much a Malaysian as them? Being a 23 years old, I was utterly disheartened and disappointed.

Part II (c): The Only Way out

It was just a few days after I came back from Petronas education unit that I received a call from an American oil and gas company informing me that I was recruited. How did I get the job? While searching for scholarships to Cambridge, I casually attended 5 stages of job interviews with this company as my mom advised me to go for job interview experience. The salary would allow me to pay up my Petronas bond in just a few months! Since the offer was great and there was no way that I could attend Cambridge anyway, I decided to take up the job.The company assigned me to Turkmenistan where I spent most of my next 2 years.

I was 24 years old when I left home for Turkmenistan and never thought I'll be back again. My plan was to climb up the corporate ladder and finally settle down in one of the developed countries.

Part II (c): When Money Rules

Being paid in a salary comparable to many general managers here in Malaysia, I managed to settle my bond with Petronas very quickly and saved some for myself. With the traveling allowances from the company, I traveled to many other countries too during the holidays. Life was great, I worked hard, played hard. Because of the good compensation scheme, I did not really think much about what I really want to do in life, my dream or my passion for the country. What I went after were money, bonus and performance. I became terribly self-centered.

I just didn't care anymore.

It was until 9th Mar 2008, when I opened The Star online and saw the news on the political tsunami that I realized how I still love and care about my country. They were just buried very deeply under my frustration and disappointment. How I wished I would be able to contribute to the change no matter how small the contribution was, instead of just seeing it as an outsider.

I began to question, why am I here? Is this really what I want to pursue? Do I do this because there's no more option? Do I do this just because of money? If I were born in the US with many other opportunities, would I still leave my home and do what I am doing now? How many more Malaysians out there left Malaysia because they went for better opportunities, just like myself and many other Malaysians abroad I've met throughout the years?

After more than half a year of consideration, I quit the job just months before my second promotion (when I still could resist the temptation). I wanted to be back to make a change to my nation, so that our next generation do not need to wander around the world for a better future, because the better future IS in Malaysia. I knew that I am a nobody and of me coming back would not help much, but I thought I should just do my part as a Malaysian, to serve our nation, regardless.

However, before I was back for good, I wanted to fulfill my childhood dream first, that was, to study in Cambridge University. I did not need to worry about my finance anymore now as I could afford to pay for everything. So I re-applied and got the admission offer within a month. A double blessing to me was that Cambridge Gates Scholarship, the most prestigious post-graduate scholarship in Cambridge University, also offered me a full scholarship! Everything was paid for including air tickets, living expenses and school fees! I was and always will be grateful for Bill and Merlinda Gates Foundation.

With that, I went to Cambridge University at the age of 27 years old, a long-delayed dream finally came true.

Part II (d): Living Cambridge Dream

My experience in Cambridge continued to make my burden for Malaysia even stronger. Throughout the year, I've met with many brilliant Malaysian students or working adults from top universities in the UK. I usually asked if they will one day be back to Malaysia. For those with JPA or Petronas bond, they said yes because no choice, whereas for those who are not bonded, almost 80% said No or they'll only be back to Malaysia if they can't find a job in UK, Europe or US. Malaysia has become the last resort. For the Gates scholars, it's even more dismal. Out of the 10 who have received the scholarships from 2001 to 2010 (unfortunately none received the scholarship in 2011 and 2012), I am the ONLY 1 who is back.

Where do many of the talented Malaysians go? There are all at the foreign land seeking for better opportunities and a better future. Can we blame them for not coming back? NO, absolutely NOT. Malaysia has just too little to offer them.


Part III: Hello Malaysian Politics


After pursuing my personal dream, as I've promised myself, I was finally back to Malaysia to pursue my dream for the country. Even with a strong burden for the country, it hadn't crossed my mind that I should be in politics, mainly because to me, being a politician was too far-fetch. I had no idea as in where to start, what to do, and which party to join. Also, I had been non-partisan all my life. What I thought I would do to make a change was probably community works and joining NGOs.

Until my company did a project with Democratic Action Party (DAP) in their general election social media campaign that I was exposed to politics first hand. I finally came to realization that if I want to make a good impact in this nation, with the limited things I have, it can only be done effectively through politics.

So joining politics? It was a tough decision, especially this year, only 1 year plus after I started my own business. I am not a person that go after fame and power, why bother to join politics? In addition, I am already 29 years old, isn't that better for me to find a husband and start a family? (God knows, when I was young I wanted to get married at 25!). Why waste time fighting for a job, of which I'll risk losing every 5 years and getting a pay that is not even half of what I used to get? Why bother to play the so called 'dirty politics'? As my mom has so rightly put it, "you can have a decent and comfortable life now, why choose such a hard life?".

However, what my mom did not know, is my love for this nation since I was 18 years old, and my desire to see a better Malaysia.

As I look back my life, by the grace of God, I was blessed with good and free education, MNC job training as well as so many different opportunities of international exposure. What I want to do now is really to be a faithful steward to the gifts of God and use them to bless my fellow Malaysians.

"For everyone to whom much given, of him shall much be required" Luke 12:48

So I've made up my mind to join politics.

Even after I've decided that I should join politics, I wasn't quite sure of which party to join. I was still a non-partisan by then. So I examined through the ideology, history and leadership of different parties, and had finally come to a conclusion that DAP is the best choice for me.

Ideologically, with years of European influences (though a The Economist reader), I have always been a social democrat, so it fits just well. Historically, DAP stood the test of time and never wavered in its principle. Finally, I think I can follow the leadership of DAP without worry because most of the time they make sense to me (unlike the other side) and most importantly, they uphold integrity and righteousness.

One setback of DAP to me was the party ethnicity-mix. It is still made-up of mostly Chinese and I am definitely not very into a race-based party. However, as I was involved in the Roketkini (DAP Malay news portal) Facebook page promotion, I could see the effort of DAP to reach out to Malay population and a genuine intention top down to make DAP a multiracial party. No party is perfect anyway. So I decided to join DAP and believe that through hard-work and time, we can build a true multiracial party together.

Part IV: Hope for the Future

So now, I am in politics and volunteering in DAP. What am I going to do for the next 20-30 years in politics?

Firstly, my heart is to use my gifts to serve the people regardless of income, race and religion. I believe politician is in fact public servant, we should always work towards maximizing the interest of the public.

For the long run, my hope for Malaysia is very simple. I hope that through the hard work of our generation, we'll make sure that Malaysia can be a land of opportunities and equality for our children. I hope that Malaysia can be a land where, no matter how big and what your dreams are, they can be fulfilled here; and no matter what your potential are, they can be reached here. I hope that our children, no matter where they are outside of Malaysia, they will so look forward to come back to Malaysia. I hope for a Malaysia that is free from corruption, united regardless or race and religion as well as competitive in the global economy.

And now, I shall work hard for it. May God bless the works of our hands.

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