關於 bear with me意思 ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

【給自己一個機會紅起來】❤️
Give Yourself A Chance To Shine

如果說宇宙的力量可以分為五種，那那五種力量就是金、木、水、火和土了。

世界萬物萬事都能以這五行去分類，而每個人的八字就是這五行的獨特混合體。這混合體遇到外在人事物的五行力量時，就會產生不同的吉凶禍福局面。

我個人經驗是，就算有著同樣八字的雙胞胎，也不會有一模一樣的命運，因為面相有細微之分，姓名的字義、音韻、筆畫和含義也會有不同的靈動力，影響著雙胞胎的命運。

看命，關鍵就在於找出自己需要的五行是什麼。這很考經驗，不是把八字裡的五行加減乘除一番就能斷出。如果這第一步搞錯，全盤的分析就會錯得一塌糊塗了。

在捉準需要的五行後，再來就是引導客人如何在衣食住行方面去補運，進而趨吉避凶。坦白說，如果客人不照著做，其實來看命也沒什麼意思。

知道未來好或不好，然後就聽天由命嗎？那豈不是只是花錢，來聽我說出你人生電視連續劇的劇透而已嗎？

我見了那麼多客人後，自己有個感想。如果人生一切都很安好，但自己就是開心不起來，這樣活著如行屍走肉，太痛苦了。

在批八字時，我都會告訴客人該用什麼顏色來旺自己。不要小看色彩學，每個顏色都有它們的五行。我也多次以色彩學，幫助一些客人應徵成功，在疫情期間依然能奏效。

但在七彩繽紛的顏色當中，只要我一提到紅色，客人們的反應普遍都很大。

什麼？那麼亮啊？
我的老婆說看不慣我穿這色！
那不是天天過年嗎？
我以前的命理師也是這麼說，
但我就是沒有做。

我的答案：你穿了幾十年這樣的顏色，也不見得你好。想命好一點，何不試一下我說的顏色？

紅能分出深淺、濃淡、明暗和不同的色度。沒有人叫你每天穿得像紅包似的。你每天穿黑，也不見得你像包青天那般的黑白分明。

附上A小姐和B先生「走紅」後的個別見證。

寫這電郵見證的B先生，在九月與我做了個後續諮詢。我遠遠看到他時，就已在想，怎麼身上絲毫沒有改變，而且還一副苦瓜臉？

他說，當初我三月見他時，他剛買了一堆衣服。顏色雖不利他，但他不捨得丟，而且老婆也不支持他穿紅色。公司裡的人也都是穿暗色的。

我說，那些新衣你也穿了幾個月了，可以拿去捐給有需要的人，佈施也不算浪費。老婆固然好意，但命是你自己的，你痛苦只有你自己知。

對待自己的命運，我們應該持有科學家的研究精神。你不去做這個實驗，你永遠不會知道我說的到底對不對。做這個實驗不難，不妨叫你的太太給你一個機會去改變。

換衣服顏色而已，又不是叫你換老婆。😂

與其內心糾結直到頭腦打結，我永遠選擇踏出第一步試一下。Never try, never know.

我一生人經歷了那麼多起起落落，老實告訴大家，命好起來時，心豁然開朗時，那種感覺真的很爽。不信，你試一下。

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If the energies in the Universe can be categorised, they would come in the 5 forms of Metal, Wood, Water, Fire and Earth.

All manifestations, be it things or events, in this world falls under these 5 elements, and each and every one of our Bazi is the combination of these 5 elements. The interaction between these elements in our Bazi and those in our circumstances will result in myriad of happenings, good fortunes or otherwise.

My personal experience tells me that even though 2 person may have exactly the same Bazi, but their destinies may turn out different. Reasons being the discrepancy in their facial features, the meanings, tonality, character strokes and essence of their names.

The crux of reading your own destiny lies in uncovering which of the 5 elements is or are mandatory for you. This calls for plenty of practical experience. It is not simply doing simple math of plus, minus, multiply and divide. If this first step is wrong, the whole deck of cards will surely collapse.

After deciphering the correct element, the next step is do guide the client on how to use it to boost their energies in all aspects, from external clothing and living environment to what they eat so as to attract good tidings and ward off misfortunes. Frankly, if the client is uncooperative, the whole of point of Bazi analysis would have been lost.

To know how your future will unfold but behave like a sitting duck? That’s just like buying a movie ticket to watch a preview of your life drama, isnt it?

I had this thought after seeing so many clients: if one’s life is seemingly smooth sailing but one remains unhappy, such zombie-like existence is very painful.

During a typical Bazi analysis session, I would always recommend the client certain colours favourable to him or her to boost the luck. Never underestimate the power of colours. Each colour has its own elemental nature. I have used this successfully several times to help clients succeed at their job interviews, even during this pandemic period.

However as soon as I mentioned the red colour, reactions from my clients tended to be bigger than usual.

Why?
Such a bright colour?
My wife said she’s not used to me in this colour!
That’s like Chinese New Year everyday!
The previous master I consulted said so too, but I did not heed the advice.

My answer: if you have been wearing your same old colours for the past many years and getting not much favours from Lady Luck, why not give my suggestion a try?

There are many tones and shades of Red. Nobody is asking you to dress like a big red ang bao (red packet) everyday. Dressing black everyday doesn’t make you Justice Bao either.

Attached are testimonies from Miss A and Mr B after they went red.

Mr B. came to me in September for a follow-up consultation. When I saw him from afar, I was thinking why there wasn’t any sign of change in him. He even sported a sour face.

He told me that after seeing me in March, he had just bought some clothes in colours that were unfavourable to him. He couldn’t bear to throw them away, and his wife didn’t really support him wearing red either. He said his colleagues were all wearing darker colours.

I told him that those clothes he bought had already served him for several months and he could donate them away. That would not constitute wastage. His wife may have good intentions but your destiny is your own business and only you know your sufferings.

We ought to treat our destiny with the spirit of a scientist. If you don’t experiment, you will never know if my methods work. This experiment is a simple one, ask your wife to support you this once.

It’s only changing the colour of your clothes, not asking to change your wife. 😂

Rather than getting oneself in knots, I will always choose to take the first step. Never try, never know.

My life’s journey has been that of ups and downs. Frankly speaking, when the winds begin blowing in your sails, and lift your spirit, those emotions are exhilarating. Don’t believe me? Try it out yourself.

【小 V 的日常英文】
來自好友 蝦皮購物 (Shopee) 的求救！
蝦編上週認識了一個外國人對他說 bear with me
差點會錯意> <
來看看正確的意思吧！
會錯意真的會超尷尬！！

#小V的日常

【謝謝你，但我的命我自己來】(English writing below)

「你明明很早就可以被男人養，為什麼不要？」

「每個人都應該爲自己的人生長本事。我想做的，是出於污泥而不染的大蓮花，沒想做溫室裡的小花。」

我家族裡的女性，幾乎清一色都是女兒當自強。我姑婆78歲，一個人住，沒嫁人沒孩子。外公娶妻時，就帶著年幼的她一起住。外公過世二十多年，外婆（也就是她的大嫂）還在世時，姑婆到了六十幾歲，都還給我外婆一些家用。

她不過是個打雜工的婦女。給外婆的家用，全靠自己努力工作賺取的。

姑婆沒讀過什麼書，而我是一個大學生，怎麼可以遜色於姑婆呢？

小時候，因為家裡欠債累累，三天兩頭就有債主「奪命追魂」的打家裡電話或「登門造訪」追債，而我一個小女孩，就經常被推出去應付這些凶神惡煞的陌生大人。理由是，他們看到小孩，口氣會軟化些，可以再拖延幾天。

當時我真的很怕，但，不出去，就會被罵被打。長那麽大了，有時會莫名其妙的害怕，幸得佛法的熏陶，以那種前面有虎，後面有熊的恐懼感，磨練出我內在『破釜沈舟』的堅韌精神。

要就不做，要做，我就絕不手軟。這樣才有意思。

這種被「嚇大」的童年，讓我很小便許下承諾，以後絕不讓任何人或東西威脅到我。

我知道很多女人都有想在家不做工的夢想。我的八字也確實有這種命，三十歲過後可以不做工，靠男人養。

但像我這般出色的人才，如果不出來貢獻於人類，而選擇那條路，豈不是太對不起祖宗十八代的強大基因，和師尊師父的教誨嗎？

出道以來，我的玄學功夫幫了不少人，我的文章也引不少很多人深思長智慧。

我這十多年練出來的功夫，去哪裡都吃得開。現在的環境風水越來越差，人的問題只會越來越多，只要有真功夫，我的行業只會越老越吃香。師父常開玩笑說，以後老了，如果沒生意，還可以到四馬路觀音廟前擺攤問事，過過日子。😄

萬一還有來世，我的潛意識起碼還會帶著這種不屈不饒的精神投胎。

如果一心想靠一個男人上位，沒有自己獨立的能力，他變心了，我怎麼辦？

以前母親也有很多男人想包她，但她也為了我們這些孩子，而一一拒絕。靠自己的本事，也把我拉到這麼大。

我媽還說，一個男人如果不要給妳名份，就別浪老娘的青春。

大人的身教，永遠都勝過於言教。

大人有怎樣的命運，孩子也必有類似的命運。

我，不想苟且偷生。現在我想賺錢，就賺錢，想寫文章和大家聊天，就寫文章，又可以繼續進修玄學，學佛修法，開發自己的佛慧。

這對我來說，是自己奮鬥很多年而得到的自由。我想要我孩子學的，就是這樣的精神。

錢，花自己心安理得賺來的，最過癮。如果是不道德不合法交易換來的錢，花的人，無論是我還是我家人，都得負上因果。

我這文章不是在貶低選擇被男人養的女性。每個人的初發心不一樣。我祇是想喚醒妳們走回原本清靜無瑕的尊貴人生。我的女客人當中，選擇這條路的，錢雖來得快，但都沒有幸福的下場。

沒有人，會比我更在意更努力的，創造我的理想人生。

若我沒這本事，我願意虛心學習。我也很慶幸，此生有兩位很厲害的大導師。

我的命，我自己來。

如果連自己的命都改不了，我有何本事收人家的紅包，爲他人改命補運呢？

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"You could have chosen to be kept by a man early in your life. Why did you not?"

"Everyone should grow abilities for their own lives. What I wish to be is a big lotus that blooms out of the slushy mud, pure and untainted. Not a little flower that is incubated in a greenhouse."

I come from a family, where almost all the women are strong and self-reliant. My 78-year-old grandaunt lives alone, never marry and has no kids. When my grandfather got married, he brought my young grandaunt to live with him. In the twenty over years he passed on, when my grandmother was still alive, grandaunt would still give a monthly allowance to my grandmother (her sister-in-law), despite being 60 over years old.

She is just a lady who works odd jobs. The monthly allowance she gave my grandmother is from her hard-earned money.

Grandaunt did not receive much of an education. I am a university graduate. How can my abilities be inferior to hers?

During my childhood, my family was laden with heavy debts. Every other day, there would be creditors incessantly calling the house phone or banging on the house door, asking for repayment. As a young girl, I often get pushed out to deal with these fierce-looking strangers. Reason being, when they saw a kid, they would often soften their tone of voice, and give a few more days for repayment.

I was frightened at that time. But if I didn't do what I was told, I would get scolded or beaten badly. Even after I grew up, there are times when I would get ridiculously afraid. I count myself lucky that the Buddhadharma has an uplifting influence on me. The terror of facing a bear in front of me, and having a tiger chasing behind gradually moulded my tenacity.

Either I don't do it, or when I do, I will burn my boats so that it's either success or nothing.

A childhood where I was constantly frightened had me promising myself this: I will never let anyone or anything threaten me.

My Bazi did indeed indicate that I can opt not to work and rely on the financial support from a man.

But for an outstanding talent like me, if I do not come out to contribute to mankind and choose an easier way out, wouldn't I be letting down the great genes of my ancestors of the past 18 generations, and the teachings from my Grandmaster and Shifu?

Ever since I started out, my work had benefitted a lot of people and my writings had helped grow the wisdom of many readers.

The skills that I hone in the past 10 over years give me freedom to earn money wherever I am. With the environmental Feng Shui worsening, the problems of mankind will only snowball and multiply. As long as I have the real skills, my line of work will only get more valuable as I age. Shifu often jokes that, if I have no business when I am old, I can still consider setting up a fortune-telling stall in front of the Guan Yin Temple at Waterloo Street, to pass time. 😄

Should I have to go through another reincarnation, at the very least, there will be this seed of unflinching courage and perseverance planted in my subconscious. Because I made the effort to.

If I opt to rely fully on a man, and have no independent ability of my own, what will happen to me when he has a change of heart?

My mum also had many offers from men, who wanted to make a mistress out of her. But for the sake of us, the children, she rejected all of them. Through her own perseverance and efforts, she still managed to raise me.

She also said if a man is unwilling to give you a legal status, don't waste your youth on him.

The adults' teaching by example will always carry more weight than what they preach.

The kind of Destiny the adults have will also be similar to the kind of Destiny their children will have.

The me right now does not have to live an ignoble existence nor live my life according to the mood of a man. When I wish to make money, I go make money. When I feel like writing to talk with all of you, I write. In my spare time, I continue honing my skills in Buddhadharma and Chinese Metaphysics, and develop my wisdom.

To me, this is the freedom that I had fought for many years. Such is the spirit that I wish for my children to learn.

Spending money is most satisfying, when this money is earned with a peace of mind. If the money is obtained through illegal/immoral ways, there will always be karmic consequences to bear, be it the spender is me or my family.

This article isn't written to look down on other women, who choose to be kept by a man. Everyone has a different motivation in life. I only wish to awaken you, to continue treading on your original pure and pristine path in life. Among my women clients, those, who chose this easy route to money, do not have a happy ending.

For me, I just think that no other person will be more bothered and diligent than me, in creating the Destiny I covet.

If I do not have the ability, I am willing to learn humbly from the right teachers, and I am very fortunate to have two great ones in my life.

I will formulate my own Destiny.

If I can't even transform my own Destiny, what right do I have to receive the red packets from others, to help them with their fortune and luck?

I thought I might cover an English song this time!
(Focus fixes itself at 0:47, sorry about that.)

When I wore this shirt for one of my live videos, a viewer asked me "Did you get in a car accident?" and "Did you get in a fight with a bear?" asked another. Rest assured, neither is the case. I bought it this way. Why, you ask? Now that is the real question.

這次想說來一首英文歌好了！
（對焦問題0:47就好了，不好意思喔！）

第一次穿這件我的直播觀眾問我「出車禍了嗎？」另外一個問「你跟熊打架了嗎？」你放心，都不是，我買這件的時候就已經是這樣了。為什麼會買這種的？那才是該問的問題;)

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六個童謠背後的恐怖故事，原來我們唱了那麼多年竟然不知道， HenHenTV奇異世界
十個童謠背後的恐怖故事：https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=huHmv2udty8
前五名童謠背後的恐怖故事：https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RzSrvnNh6As&t=4s
五個童謠背後的恐怖故事：https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R3POVHDIL4k
各位大家好，歡迎來到HenHenTV的奇異世界，我是Tommy。
從小都有聽一些童謠長大吧～其實那時那裡會知道童謠的歌詞真實意思呢！我們都是跟住童謠的旋律在唱，好像是这一首：小宝宝，吃蛋糕，饭仔mam mam 叔叔餵到。。。。
, 或者是：London bridge is falling down...等等的童謠，你確定你真的明白他的意思？
今天我們就來說六個童謠背後的恐怖故事，为什么是六個？！！！因为我没时间做够十個！
6倫敦橋倒塌下來了（London Bridge is falling down）
大家都有玩過這個遊戲和唱過這首歌吧？這橋建於1014年，英國國王為了抵抗丹麥的入侵而燒毀了這條橋，在1091年被暴風雨摧毀，然後在重建，在1136年被燒毀。然後就開始建石橋，上面那時是有商店，屋子，教堂等等，但是在1212發生了一場大火，它是從石橋的兩端燒起，結果燒死了3000多人，也有一個傳說就是有人提倡人柱，就是把小孩子活埋在基石下面，就可以穩固橋不會再倒塌。
5. 十個小黑人 ten little Indians
Ten little nigger boys went out to dine;
十個小黑人出外用膳；

One choked his little self, and then there were nine.
一個噎死還剩九個。

Nine little nigger boys sat up very late;
九個小黑人熬夜到很晚；

One overslept himself, and then there were eight.
一個睡過頭還剩八個。

Eight little nigger boys travelling in Devon;
八個小黑人在到丹文遊玩；

One said he'd stay there, and then there were seven.
一個說要留在那兒還剩七個。

Seven little nigger boys chopping up sticks;
七個小黑人在砍柴；
One chopped himself in half, and then there were six.
一個把自己砍成兩半還剩六個。

Six little nigger boys playing with a hive;
六個小黑人玩蜂窩；

A bumble-bee stung one, and then there were five.
一隻黃蜂叮住一個還剩五個。

Five little nigger boys going in for law;
五個小黑人進入法院；

One got in chancery, and then there were four.
一個被留下還剩四個。

Four little nigger boys going out to sea;
四個小黑人到海邊；

A red herring swallowed one, and then there were three.
一條紅鯡魚吞下一個還剩三個。

Three little nigger boys walking in the Zoo;
三個小黑人走進動物園裡；

A big bear bugged one, and then there were two.
一隻大熊抓走一個還剩兩個。

Two little nigger boys sitting in the sun;
兩個小黑人坐在太陽下；

One got frizzled up, and then there was one.
一個熱死只剩一個。

One little nigger boy living all alone;
一個小黑人覺得好寂寞；

He got married, and then there were none.
He went and hanged himself, and then there were none.
他結婚後一個也不剩。
他上吊後一個也不剩。

在歌詞裡面十個小黑人，最後一個也不剩。
這首歌詞原版是的小黑人nigger，過後被譯為小印第安人（nigger是非常帶有種族歧視的字眼）
到最後一個小黑人他覺得很寂寞，就自己上吊自殺了，過後因為覺得不適合兒童而改成結婚。而這首童謠也因為這黑暗的歌詞而被改成推理小說（無人生還 and then They Were None）大家可以去找這本書看看。而過後因為太過有種族歧視的意思在裡面而被改成現在的那首one little，two little，three little Indians。。。
4. Lizzie Borden took an Axe （莉淇波登拿了斧頭）
這首歌聽起來已經是毛骨悚然的，裡面的歌詞更是恐怖。它的歌詞如下：
Lizzie Borden took an axe, 莉琪波登拿起斧头
and gave her mother forty whacks. 劈了妈妈四十下
When she saw what she had done, 当她意识到自己的行为，
she gave her father forty-one. 又砍了爸爸四十一下。
这首童谣来自一个真人真事。在1892，一名美國银行家银行家安德鲁波登（Andrew Borden）被他33 岁的女儿莉兹波登（Lizzie Borden）发现用斧头砍死在屋内，之后莉兹的继母又被发现被斧头砍死在二楼。聽說是她殺了繼母過後被她爸爸發現而順手也殺了他爸爸。
但是最後她lizzie borden被法官判无罪释放，再次引起舆论哗然。所以才有了這首歌，但現在有哪一個媽媽會叫自己的女兒唱這首歌啊？
3. There is a crooked man
這首歌謠源自英國王室（Stuart）時期英格蘭國王查理一世
彎腰曲背的男人是指蘇格蘭將軍亞歷山大‧萊斯利（General Sir Alexander Leslie）。
這位將軍代表蘇格蘭，與英格蘭簽訂宗教及政治上的和平協約，「。. 但是其實crooked可以解釋為神經病患看這個世界也是扭曲的，在黑暗時期很多人因此而發瘋！這首歌也因為這樣而被納入在Conjuring 2電影裡面


2. Three blind mice 三隻瞎老鼠
Three blind mice, three blind mice. 三隻盲鼠，三隻盲鼠
See how they run, see how they run. 看牠們竄，看牠們竄
They all ran after the farmer's wife, 牠們全都追農夫老婆跑
Who cut off their tails with a carving knife 她用切肉刀斬掉牠們尾巴
Did you ever see such a sight in your life 你這輩子是否看過這奇觀
As three blind mice? 三隻盲鼠的奇觀

16世紀正是歐洲宗教革命時期，雖然亨利八世推行宗教改革、提倡基督新教，但他女兒瑪莉皇后卻是個虔誠的天主教徒（舊教）。她非常排斥新教，殺了很多基督教徒，因為這樣她也稱之為血腥瑪莉（Blood Mary）。
那三隻老鼠「three mice」是指三名堅守新教信條的貴族，他們因為信奉新教，因此被冠上「密謀抗后」的罪名處刑。
但是和童謠唱的不一樣，瑪莉皇后沒有將他們分屍，而是將他們活活燒死
1. 杜樹記裡面的 My mother has killed me我的媽媽殺了我

My mother has killed me, 我的媽媽殺了我，
My father is eating me, 我的爸爸在吃我
My brothers and sisters sit under the table, 我的兄弟姊妹坐在餐桌底
Picking up my bones, And they bury them, 撿起我的骨頭，埋了它們，
under the cold marble stones。埋到冰冷的石碑下

這個童謠是源自格林童話The Juniper Tree 杜樹記，那種血腥黑暗的原版故事為：故事描述一名小男孩，被狠心的繼母殺害，並將屍體煮成肉湯 ，當作爸爸的晚餐；小男孩的妹妹傷心欲絕，於是將爸爸吃剩的哥哥的骨頭，拿到杜松樹 下埋葬，沒想到小男孩化身為小鳥，並藉由美妙的歌聲取得三樣東西，回家殺掉繼母。

西方國家和東方國家對於死亡的態度從童謠就可以看得出來，東方國家比較避忌談論這個話題而西方國家從小就直接和兒童灌輸死亡的觀念，但無論如何，教導兒女如何做人處事，黑白分明是比考試考滿分更重要。
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