|| 德國生活與親子教養 - 母親與孩子之間 ||
近來因為「女人能否兼顧一切」座談會的醞釀與籌備，回想這一路來的點滴歷程，讓我感觸許多。
剛好在擬定四月份關於德國生活的討論主題同時，接下Seed這個丹麥品牌娃娃推車的拍攝工作，時間一下子把我拉回了十年前，那時候女兒還是個小娃兒的時候。
來到德國十四年，如果以每五年來算剛好差不多可以劃分成三等份；頭兩個五年，我和女兒之間有著緊密的契合關係、兩兩相伴，到近年來女兒隨著年紀增長社交圈愈發擴大，她某個程度也開始建立自己的生活圈，那是我們當父母只能旁觀、尊重與輔導，無法介入的範圍。
回想一位新手媽媽連替寶寶洗澡時都提心吊膽的卻生模樣，再看看身旁這位即將比我高大也時常頂嘴的青少女；若不是瞇起眼恐怕也難回想起那時候女兒說的第一句中文竟然是「頭抬高」這莫名其妙的三個字。
同時，一個問題在我心中不斷地以跑馬燈的姿態轉著：如果時間重回到女兒還需要一台娃娃推車來代步的時刻，身為一位母親有哪些事情我情願重新來過一遍？有太多答案爭先恐後地在腦海中急著舉手發言。
我願，我從未受到原生家庭的影響。童年青少時光的背景讓我不懂得愛與被愛；而是當了母親之後才知道自己生命與性格中的缺失，我學會道歉、試著放下身段、懂得以柔軟同理的心與女兒相處。
拍攝之前，情緒的張昂讓我十分緊張；拍攝之後，因為回憶所碰觸的痛點一一反擊，讓人虛脫。如果，我有些故事可以訴說，那麼那會是一個女孩隨著年歲增長慢慢地經由學習找回生命中熱情與體諒的章回。--- Seed Stroller
（溫馨小放送，這個拍攝的專案將會送出兩個十分合宜、超值的獎品；不管你用不用、需不需要娃娃推車，都請期待接下來的報導分享，絕對不要錯過了。）
|| Lifestyle and Parenting in Germany - between mother and child ||
Today, we had a stroller campaign shooting for Seed. Because of the project, it drew me back to some old memories from about 10 years ago, that time my baby girl still needed a stroller. If I could turn my time back to ten years ago, as a mother, what I would act differently?
All answers come up to my mind. Because of my family, when I was a child, when I was younger, I had never experienced love and to be loved. Moreover, I have learned how to be a mother and to give my love and care to my daughter just right after being a mother. A long journey, a profound life experience.
If I have something to share, it would be a story about a young girl has learned how to rediscover a real family relationship with her family that she founded in her second half of life. --- Seed Stroller
Notice：the Seed campaign will give two of great presents to two winners, no matter if you need a stroller or not, a definitely great gift that you will look for. Do not forget to follow the upcoming report about it.
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