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“现实生活中，不讲理的事多得是。有些人的本事，是没事找事，故意给你找茬，是他们的例行公事。无谓的误解配不上你的解释，选择不回话、不反驳不代表心虚默认，而是你心里清楚知道，不管你说了什么、重复了多少次，一切都无济于事。他们只想听自己已经相信的事，而不把真相当一回事。不要意气用事，也不用争到面红耳赤。以一种无所谓的姿势，继续活出自己该活的样子。你不需要全部人都点头称是，但对得起自己的良心，是你做人做事最起码的坚持。”
死猫不好吃，但心安可当枕头睡。不解释不代表对方有理，而是因为你问心无愧。
Never waste your time trying to explain to people who only understand from their level of perception. "No" is a full sentence.
World-renowned German director Werner Herz shared a few selected words in the his master class:
1. When you look at the camera, feel like death is staring at you
2. I don’t use storyboards to tell stories. I think this is a tool for coward
3. Working with actors and in acting are a chemistry for me to understand the world
4. Don't look at the camera when you are holding it, look through the camera
5. Don't pay too much money and spend too much time in school. You can start shooting directly and learn film making after two weeks
6. When I saw a lot of students came to me and said, "I took 450 hours of shooting “ my heart sank, I tell them. “We are not garbage collector! We are film maker!”
In fact, when I watched the director Werner's sharing, especially on his comments on the last sentence. In this era of flooded information, every day, we blindly absorb tons of knowledge, information, and advertisements. Many people became information junkie or seminar junkie, going after courses and courses. Some of that bough a bunch of bundle e-learning courses online during holiday sales in a discount, but never really learn it. Some bought many books even haven’t have a chance to unwrap it but just put it a side and let times forget everything.
If we were to explain this in psychological effect, this is a human’s desire that wanting more, and thinking that more is always good, and they are cheating their brain that they thought consume more information product can help them become more knowledgeable, smarter.
While in the soule level, this is just a way of feeding ones ego. Is an illusion of having more can make someone more powerful and special.
In reality, to really learn any skill, what you need is [FOCUS]. Focus on doing one thing well, doing it deep and thoroughly, understanding and master it, and finish it. When after you mastered it, then only start a new learning. Just like a book, never bought a second book until you finish the first one.
Now, does this sound familiar to you? Is this some habitual pattern that you lost down and remind yourself to improve in the new year?
Let’s work on this together 😎
Durganihantri’s 💖 Inspirations
世界著名的德国导演Werner Herz 在精英硕士课里分享了几个精选的话：
1. 当你看着镜头的时候，要有像死亡在盯着你的感觉
2. 我不用故事画板来讲故事，我觉得这是胆小的人的工具
3. 跟演员合作，演员的演习对我来说是一种化学效应，如何去明白世界
4. 当你拿着相机不要看着相机，要从相机看透
5. 不要还太多钱和太多时间在学校上课，你可以直接在场地开始操作摄影两周后立即可以学会拍摄
6. 当我看到很多新手跑来跟我说：“我拍摄了450个小时我有努力我应该合格了吧？”我听了心马上吊打谷底，我说：“我们不是垃圾场什么垃圾都捡，我们是电影制作人！”
其实看了Werner导演的分享，尤其是最后一句非常有感触。在这个资讯泛滥的时代，每一天我们都盲目的去吸收上百种知识，信息，广告。有些人还未了想要学习某些知识盲目的什么课程学员都去报名，还有很多因为优惠连报了几套几系列的课程，可是就放着置之不理，甚至都忘了。再不然就是买了很多书，有的甚至没开封还没看，结果忘了再继续买。
在心里学的角度，其实这种购买欲，或者大量的吸收资讯，只不过未了欺骗大脑🧠，“假想”上好像学了很多知识，站在灵魂的维度，只不过在满足小我的意识，感觉买的多，可能就比别人更资深更厉害。
其实，真正的学习一门技巧，需要的是【专注】这两个字。先专注把一件事情做好，做得深，做得透，做完了，学习得精深了，掌握好了，才来开始新的学习。 就像一本书，看完了再买，不要翻开一辆页就摆在一旁。然后又继续去买。
这，有没有讲到你心了呢？可否把这个列为必须提醒自己，新的一年要好好改善的习性呢？
与大家共勉之😊
Durganihantri 杜尔迦💖语录
