RINDU seorang anak
Seawal jam 6:30 atau 7:00 kita suami isteri hantar anak ke rumah org/taska... Kalau dulu, ayah je.. Tp skrg, kdg2 isteri pun blk lewat...
Anak2 redha di tempat org... Belajar, bermain... Riang... Kongsi makan dan kongsi penyakit... 🙂 xpe, KLINIK ADA!!
Sepanjang di tempat kerja, anak2 di rumah pengasuh/taska rindu kat kita... Rindu ayah... Rindu mama..
Tp... Nak ckp rindu x reti... Nak tulis surat, xreti gak... Jadi, bila kita ambil anak jam 6:00 ptg, diulang, 6:00 ptg, saat anak nampak mama dan ayah dia, anak kita tekad...
Dia nak mama tgk dia... Nak ayah dukung, peluk dia... Dia buat perangai... Nak makan sndri... Nak itu... Nak ini... Nak dukung...
Tumpah air.. Kerna hanya bahasa PROTES dan BUAT PERANGAI shj yg anak2 tahu utk bgtau yg...
"Mama saya rindu n sayang sgt kat mama..."
TAPI.....
Apa kita buat...
Bila anak2 bising... Kita marah...
Bila anak2 main... Kita herdik...
Dia nangis, kita jerit "DIAM!!!!"
Dia suruh ajar... Kita jawab "AYAH NAK TGK TV, FAHAM!!!!"
Dia tumpahkan makanan/air kita tengking seolah2 dia sudah cukup matang...
Sedih hati seorg anak yg rindu mama... Yg rindu abah... Yg rindu pelukan ibu... Rindu dukungan abi...
Apakah duit boleh ganti kasih sayang?
Apakah jus tok guru boleh ganti suapan kasih sayang?
Apakah mainan berlambak2 boleh ganti saat bergurau senda sesama keluarga?
Apakah masing2 makan kat luar boleh ganti nilai makan bersama...
Fikir sahabat...
Fikir teman2...
Fikir ayah ibu yg mulia...
Mahal sgt kah cuti tanpa gaji, demi anak2, amanah Allah pada kita?
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Missing a child
As early as 6:30 o'clock or 7:00, husband and wife will send their children to other people's house / nursery... If it was before, it would be just a father.. But now, sometimes the wife
Children are accepting other people's place... Learn, play... Fun... Share food and share illness... 🙂 it's okay, CLINIC IS THERE!!
Throughout the workplace, the children at the nanny / nursery house miss us... Miss you dad... Miss you mama..
But... I don't know how to say that I miss you... I want to write a letter, I don't know... So, when we take the child at 6:00 pm, it's repeated, 6:00 pm, when the child sees determination...
He wants mama to look at him... Want dad to carry him, hug him... He behaves... Want to eat himself... Want that... Want this... Want to support...
Water spilled.. Because only PROTEST language and ACTUALLY all the children know to let you know...
′′ My mom misses and loves mama so much..."
BUT.....
What are we doing...
When the kids are noisy... We're angry...
When the kids play... We are herdik...
She cried, we screamed ′′ SILENCE!!!!"
He told me to teach... We answered ′′ DAD WANTS TO WATCH TV, UNDERSTAND!!!!"
He spills food / water we remember as if he's mature enough...
The heart of a child who misses his mother... The one who misses his father... The one who misses his mother's hugs... Miss his support
Can money replace love?
Can the teacher's juice replace the love feed?
Can the toys be replaced while joking around with family?
If everyone eats out there can replace the value of eating together...
Think friend...
Think friends...
Think of a noble mother's father...
Is it so expensive to leave without salary, for the sake of children, Allah's trust in us?
Credit: Alan Mat Nor
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write a letter to mom and dad 在 Pakar diari hati Facebook 的最佳貼文
Di antara membaca,bercakap dan menulis,mana satu nak dimulakan dulu?
1. Bercakap.
Usia KRITIKAL : 0-2 tahun.
...Continue ReadingBetween Reading, talking and writing, which one to start first?
1. Talk.
Critical Age: 0-2 years old.
This is the most important element in the life of a human being. Talking is important for us to communicate about our thoughts and feelings so that the people around know what we want to say so that there will be no misunderstanding.
Start since your child just came out to see the world, which is within 24 hours after being born. Greet your child, give greetings... say 'hi', kiss.... hug, say whatever you want to say. Just chat. It looks like it's not right when sitting in the ward, we're talking alone while giving eye contact to the baby. But that's the first thing we have to do since our child was born. And konsistenlah talks to them until they grow up, nak2 in the first two years.
I often ask parents, ' child can talk or not? 'most answer' already, said... ABC, 123 all he knows. Even jawi letters. ' I said, that's not talking. Where is the same talk by knowing those letters!
Talking is communicating. There is an eye contact, got a child answering back to the question, react to the name from mom dad, calling, not mention it.
Once when my child was admitted in the hospital, there was a mother 'talking' to her child who was a year and 6 months in spelling. That's strong! ' B.U.K.U... Book! ' I guess he's the target of his child to be good at spelling while talking. The rest of the time, I see his son just given a gadget and 'learn' through gadgets. Rampage Toksah say it. As long as something is wrong, the child is just raging. Noisy one ward listen!
I'm crazy looking at it!
Spelling is not talking!
Reading is not talking!
Counting not talking!
Talk need to have eye contact.
Speaking must have a understanding between two parties.
Talk must have expression and expression.
Talking is communication, there are people who listen, there are people who reply back.
Speaking must have a impersonation, better to copy in terms of style or sound of rattles.
Giving gadgets and learning at this age?
If possible, avoid it!
2. Doodling & painting
Critical Age: 1-3 years old.
It's important for your child to learn to hold a pencil or a crayon or a big painting brush at the moment for a doodling session.
If you're worried that your child will doodle the wall, buy a big paper paper, paste it on the wall of the house. If there is more budget, wall the wall with paint is easy to delete. If it's so hard to do, just accept that the walls of the house have to be doodle.
Contenting helps the child express their mind.
Doodling helps children strengthen hand muscles.
Content there is a visual element of perceptual (this is another chapter).
Doodling creates midline crossing abilities.
Doodling helps the formation of a finger holding a pencil (Pencil Grip).
Don't care where to doodle. On Paper, on the floor, near the wall, books... we are grown up, please think of the best way to encourage children to be doodling. Follow everyone who wants to control your heart and feelings to see the house messy or what.... most importantly, think of the way!
May I make the element of the sand, the ground, the stone... for the wood twig... no complaints, as long as the child can be conteng.
During this age, don't force your child to write too much. It's fun to ask to write ABC, number, jawi letter...
Teach child painting after doodling.
Paint bentuk2 that is around us.
Animal Paint, plants, homes, or anything.
Accompany the child to draw.
Use water colour, crayon or any drawing tools.
It's not a waste to spend money buying these things. Not a loss!
3. Coloring.
Critical Age: 1-3 years old.
Teach the color at this age.
Coloring activity helps children form straight, vertical, oblique, rounded lines and so on.
The Color of the painting that is in let it fit the age of the child.
Don't be asked to coloring the complex painting. If possible, avoid coloring the painting inside the gadget.
Coloring in gadgets does not bring any meaning to hand muscle. How to develop a memory motor against the line?
At this age, you don't have to worry if the children are still not good at the color in the line. Still the color out the line is normal. No problem. The most important thing is, he knows where to color it.
Create a concept of coloring as early as possible. No need to wait until school is just about to coloring.
No need to bring to the mall, coloring at the that has of for in, then you have to pay. The color at home is better. It's better for us to draw a picture of our family, ask our children to be color. Simple. Saving a lot.
4. Writing and reading.
Critical age of writing: 4 years
Starting age knowing letters and numbers: 4 years
Beginning of reading age: 5 years and above.
Age that is considered late to be able to read: 11 years.
Logically, when the child has learned a lot of lines through doodling and coloring, it's self-prepare to write. This time it's easy to write letters and numbers even though they don't know the letters and numbers yet. No problem.
Can teach to write in a session, then teach to know the letter in the later session.... at the age of 4! This is the earliest age! Not too late yet.
No need to worry because once a child and learn letters, a few letters... start to read at the age of 5
If we follow all this process gradually, God willing, the child has no problem! No need to worry too much.
If we 'turn' all this process, there will be consequences because it has violated the development of a human being.
If you feel there is an effect, don't be shy to bring the therapist to fix the problems that are available.
So much.
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Picture for example only not encourage for children to doodle walls.
Parents please paste the big paper on the wall so that the children are free to play at the same time they can work comfortably
Source: Liyana Raya
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write a letter to mom and dad 在 Annababy療癒之門 Facebook 的最佳貼文
I’ll definitely have to commemorate my first “Thank you letter” by taking the time to write in English, to share with all of my wonderful clients.
I got an emergency call from this client, who was worried about her father as he was upset and dizzy from worrying about a number of things. I was able to help him out and she sent me the note of appreciation that evening:
“My dad seems more relieved at dinner than he was this morning.
He's more energetic and much more cheerful compare to how he was over the last two days as well. He was really furious over the weekend and complained about dizziness to my Mom.
I haven't got a chance to take him through the process that you want me to try yet, probably need to wait for the right timing over the incoming long weekend. Or maybe my Mom would be the first one that I try on. But what I want to say is thank you babe, for helping me and my Dad.
I feel so much relieved seeing my Dad feels better, in this situation that I am very sorry to put him and my Mom through.
Love ya, babe.”
第一個全英文版的感謝函,
也是值得紀念一下啦~。
案主的父親因為擔心而導致精神不好、頭暈,
非常喪氣與擔心。
一早就收到急call,晚上收到調整後的回饋:
「我爸爸今天晚餐的時候,
看起來比早上輕鬆多了。
與過去兩天相比,
他看起來更有精神了也更開心了,
上週末他真的很憤怒,
而且一直跟我媽抱怨他頭暈。
我還沒有機會帶領他妳要我嘗試引導他的部份,
或許在接下來的長假裡,會有合適的時機,
或者先帶領我媽媽試試看。
但我想說的是,謝謝妳幫助我還有我的父親。
我之前對讓我父親與母親擔心,
真的對他們感到非常抱歉,
現在看到我爸爸好轉,
我感覺真的是好多了。」
I feel really good when helping people😊
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