Nope, it’s not plastic, photoshop or magic - it’s just the way a female body works during breastfeeding 🙃
If I were to get any job done, I promise you guys will be the first to know - tho I feel that it’s rly nobody’s biz what I choose to do with my body 🤷🏻♀ Meanwhile, they are 100% REAL
A quick shoutout to all the moms who sacrificed their body in a way or another for their little one(s). It’s true that you’ll never completely feel and look the same after pregnancy.
Personally, it’s not about how/what others think, it’s how I look at my own body in the mirror everyday and feel the way I feel. I’d be lying if I said I’m not worried about my boobs sagging once I stop breastfeeding after all the horror stories I heard/read. Will I get them done when they do? Idk. But if it makes me feel good, why not?
My point is - not everyone who does plastic surgery is insecure. It’s like makeup, I don’t put on makeup because I feel insecure about how I look w/o it. I do so because I love myself and I choose to invest in the way I look. It’s to enhance, not hide away from it.
I’m not here to speak on every individual’s behalf, but imo, it’s self-improvement. I think it’s brave and confident of anyone, male/female to take charge of their mind + body and make changes to it when they feel a need to. Not to answer or prove to anyone, but for themselves.
Ofc, I believe if you’re unhappy with yourself internally, you‘ll never be happy no matter how much you try to alter the way you look. So it’s important to find happiness from within cos all these may fix you physically but not how you feel mentally.
Btw, I’m not just talking about cosmetic procedures/beauty products;self-improvement includes adapting a healthy + balanced lifestyle, reading, picking up a new hobby etc. I started working out 4 months post-preg not to impress, not just to get back into shape, but to regain physical strength and to help clear my mind. It makes me feel good.
Instead of dwelling, envying, worrying, fearing and regretting - Focus on the things you can control rather than the things you can’t change. You don’t have to be better than anyone else, just be the best version of yourself.
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