“STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES”
On social media lately, you would have seen reactions towards a video of a professor advising girls to act a bit stupid if they wanna find a partner.
My ears burned the first time I heard that statement. In this era, with such qualifications and status how could one even imagine to utter such “advise” ! My fingers were quick to reply onto the comment box of the video..
but then i held back and analyse the whole situation.
Maybe that was not what she meant to say. sometimes you have an idea. You ran it thru your brains and it sounds perfectly academically fine. But then the words that flows out of your mouth is utterly different. not just different, it’s offensive and on the verge of being stark right rubbish!! You try to stop it from coming out but this verbal diarrhoea just won’t put a cork in it.
There are people and moments like that and when such moments happen it is usually taken into offence.
given the situation and given the tittle of the person saying these words. you can’t imagine it to have been what she meant. She is a clever, well learned professor that went thru years of studying and hard work to get that tittle from some big university somewhere. Haihhh .. or was it after marriage that she got her certificates?
no matter in any conditions, I personally believe in a relationship there should be equal respect and mutual understanding on both ends. One should never have to be put in a situation of having to act as another person (unless you r role playing ). Treat your partner how you want to be treated. No down playing or acting “STUPID” should need to happen. Be truthful. Learn to understand but always first be KIND. If that person wants you to just satisfy that fragment of his imagination and not accepting you for YOU. Then they are not the person that you should be with ever. ...
hmmm maybe the professor has some truth .. maybe that’s why I’m still SINGLE.. nahh I’m just UGLY and I’ll rather be ugly and single than have to be lie and be STUPID.
Anyways today I cooking “Acar Simpan Hari”
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