關於 ever young ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

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It’s always baffled me that we think it’s appropriate to remark about changes in someone’s weight when we see them... this video has been a long time coming.
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Do we think they have no mirrors in their house and they haven’t noticed?
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I’ve used a few examples here that are closest to my personal experiences, but it’s an issue that affects people young and old, skinny, fat and everything in between.
Everyone seems incapable of putting themselves in the other person’s shoes.
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It’s really fucking simple. Just shut the fuck up and keep your observations the fuck to yourself.
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Maybe it’s a dear friend and you’re concerned about what the changes in their physique indicate about their lifestyle and their happiness... well then find a way to ask them about that! There are plenty of ways to ask someone how they’re doing and if they’re taking care of themselves without highlighting how it shows to everyone who looks at them.
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I live behind the scenes these days, working with people who struggle with their physiques and as a confident for friends. I know how sensitive a subject it is, even if they don’t show it and nervously laugh off comments.
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I grew up thinking it was an Asian thing, but then I realised that in Asia people (particularly older relatives) are particularly blunt about it with “Wah, so fat now ah?” whereas in the West people like to make it a joke with a “Ooh heck, you’ve let yourself go a bit eh mate!”.
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Both parties can go fuck themselves, and I’d love it if as many of you as possible who ever get made even slightly self-conscious about such remarks would take it upon yourselves to tell them so 🖕🏽
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Spread the word. Maybe, if it happens enough, we can sway the culture.

【一切的失敗和不足，都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us

三個月前，收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時，開心和心酸交織著在心裡。

開心，因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年，特地寫了封感謝函給我，真有心！

心酸，因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情，我完完全全明白。

他的經歷，是我的曾經。我當初也是很難，很久才能走出來。

有一回，我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時，她很用心的寫下我說的話。

論寫筆記的完整，她是我客人當中的佼佼者。

寫到一半，我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了，冷到她，便問她要不要披巾。

她說，是她的焦慮症發作。

「我沒在兇你，也沒對你嚴厲，你為何突然焦慮？」

「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫，我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用，同學們都前進了，只有我現在什麼都不是，亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張，萬一我一直都是這樣，怎麼辦？」

說著，她眼眶一紅，眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。

我的媽呀！是我的樣子長得很催淚，還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心？怎麼客人，不分男女老少，東南西北，看到我好像都很容易哭？

我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。

「所以，我不是來了嗎？你來找我，就是要問個明路，而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦！你看你的筆記寫得多工整，多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊！我今天的工作，就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握，也不會接你這份差事。我接了，就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做，一定柳暗花明又一村。」

又另一回，一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。

我在批著八字時，這位媽媽點頭認同，然後就聲淚俱下。

我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎？太太哭成淚人，你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊？

「我是個沒有用的母親，很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他，可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做，我就會對他發脾氣，說狠話，過後我又後悔。我忍下來，可是後來還是會一樣！」

我沒打斷她，等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後，我柔柔的說：「我來啦！我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我，就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行，會去找辦法，就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊！」

我把紙巾遞給她，再說：「不要哭了，要不然，別人看了以為是我不要借你錢，才把你弄得那麼傷心。」

曾幾何時，我們都會以外在所擁有的，來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。

從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等，到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......

哪一樣沒有，而偏偏是我們最想要的，我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。

我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀，也離不開那幾點。

久而久之，我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值，甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。

我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛，六道眾生皆有佛性，只因一時的迷，因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。

可正因為我們有佛性，我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量，等著我們遇到明師後，去發掘、探索和了解。

而這天生俱來的力量，就是你改命立命的資本。

如果人生順風順水，我們永遠不會想要出離，誤把人間當極樂，所以一定要有苦，我們才會意識到，為什麼我們會在這鬼地方？要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂？

反過來，我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折，因為從這些苦中，我們才能生出智慧。

沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足，都是最美好的安排，如此你才會有出離心，返本歸源。

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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.

I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!

On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.

His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.

Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.

Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.

Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.

She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.

“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”

“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”

As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.

Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?

I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.

“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”

On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.

As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.

I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?

“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”

I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”

I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”

Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.

The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.

If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.

I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.

Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.

I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.

Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:

And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.

If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?

We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:

No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.

Till I Know What Love Is(I'm Never Gonna Die) from AIMYON TOUR 2021“FELL in LOVE with the WOUND & the DEVIL”.

AIMYON TOUR 2021“FELL in LOVE with the WOUND & the DEVIL”
May 12  Asahikawa civic culture hall ,HOKKAIDO
May 14  Obihiro civic culture hall ,HOKKAIDO
May 23  Yonago convention center-BiG SHiP- ,TOTORI
May 27  Kochi prefectural culture hall-Orange- ,KOCHI
Jun 2  Yokkaichi city cultural center-1- ,MIE
Jun 4  Hamamatsu-Act city- ,SHIZUOKA
Jun 11  Saga civic culture hall-Large- ,SAGA
Jun 12  Kawasho hall(Kagoshima civic culture hall-1-) ,KAGOSHIMA
Jun 23  Hokuto culture hall(Nagano prefectural culture hall-Large-) ,NAGANO
Jun 26  Kawaguchiko stellar theater ,YAMANASHI
Jul 1  Iwate prefectural hall ,IWATE
Jul 11  Utsunomiya city cultural hall ,TOCHIGI
Jul 15  Rohm theatre Kyoto-Main- ,KYOTO
Jul 16  Osaka castle band shell ,OSAKA
Aug 2  Festival hall ,OSAKA

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AIMYON：

Genuine & authentic are the perfect words to describe Aimyon, a guitar-strumming storyteller of today’s youth in Japan.  
 
Without a doubt she is one of the biggest artists in the Japanese music scene.  She has fans around the world and those in Taipei and Shanghai were lucky enough to see her perform live in their cities.
 
She has had constant hits including “Naked Heart”, “Let the Night” (each with 100 million streams certified by Billboard) and “Marigold” (first ever Japanese song to hit 100 million streams, and racking up 200 million streams to date) to name a few.  She is one of the first artists in Japan to truly flourish through streaming platforms where young music listeners come to discover new music.  Fans are always looking out for the visual sides of Aimyon as well:  Her music videos are never over the top but entertaining, real and soothing.  Aimyon’s favorite artwork designer Tondabayashi Ran also knows how to add Aimyon flavor to each release, helping to create her distinct world.


Official YouTube
https://youtube.com/user/aimyong

Official Twitter
https://twitter.com/aimyongtter

Official Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/aimyon36/

Official Weibo
https://weibo.com/u/7099412531

【モラトリアムコレクション 第5弾！】

「ひとりと一匹」
"One boy and one dog"

　texture : ウッドグルーシック
飾り : 思い出のお花畑
香り : ホワイトチョコとパン
サイズ : 8oz
　価格 : 1650円

BASEショップやインスタグラムのURLはこちらから → https://linktr.ee/mochiyoslime

このスライムは６月６日日曜日の２１時からの「モラトリアムコレクション」で、BASEにて販売します！ 詳細は概要欄や今後公開される動画でご確認ください♪

0:00 〜 OP

0:30 〜 本編開始　
the beginning of the main part

0:47 〜 触り始め　
begin to touch

1:43 〜 容器から出す　
take out of a container

1:45 〜 片手で触る　
touch with one hand

1:58 〜 両手でガッツリ遊ぶ　
play with both hands

5:52 〜 あたたたたたたいむ
mochiyo beam

5:55 〜 もこもこテクスチャーで遊ぶ
play with a fluffy texture

7:18〜 もこもこにして容器に還元　
fluff up and return to the container

7:21 〜 もこもこばちばち　
fluffy & nice bubble pops

【日本語 Japanese】

───春のうららのお花畑です。一人と一匹の思い出のお花畑です。

こちらはウッドグルーベースのシックスライムです。
凄く分厚いのに、トロッとしています。
もちよすらいむ史上1番手離れがいいスライムです。
滑らかな手触りで、ベタつきがゼロです。
多少柔らかい状態で触っても、ベタつくことなく遊べます。

物語の主人公は、実家暮らしの大学生とその飼い犬です。
青年は無邪気で好奇心旺盛、少年のような心の持ち主です。
愛犬とはもはや血を分けた兄弟のように仲良く遊んでいました。

そんな彼も大学3年生、大人になる時が近づきます。

「〇〇大学の僕」「〇〇代表の僕」「ＴＯＥＩＣ何点の僕」
大人に近づけば近づくほどレッテルを貼られます。
誰もがそのレッテルばかりを見るので、本当の自分は置いてけぼり。
青年は自分を見失って、思わず俯いてしまいます。

おや？下げた目線の先、足元に何やらうごめく毛玉があります。

「何してるの？早く遊びに行こうよう」

相棒はただ純粋に、ただのひとりの少年と遊びたそうにしています。
その時、彼は気がついたのです。

「この世界一気の合う相棒は、本当の僕だけを見ている」
「こいつといる時は “ただの僕” でいられる！」

青年は、相棒といる時だけ「少年」に還るのです。

やがて青年は就職先を決め、実家を離れる時がやってきます。
家を出る日、彼が思い起こすのは相棒との暖かな記憶。

流れる川の音、ひらひら舞う蝶々、シロツメクサの花畑。
そんな春の陽気の中を颯爽と駆け抜ける、ひとりと一匹の足音。

彼は愛する相棒に誓います。

「僕は絶対に忘れない。君のことも、僕のことも」

──彼の周りは口を揃えて彼のことをこう語ります。

「彼は、とうとう、いまわの際まで少年だった」と。

──めでたしめでたし。

……という長すぎるバックストーリーでした笑
相棒と別れて「変わる」のではなく「変わらない」話でした。

このスライムも空気が入る前と入った後で手離れの良さが変わりません。
もこもこになってもずっとバブル音を楽しみ続けることができます。

机にしっかり張り付いてくれます。
伸びはまずまずで、この動画以上に早く触ると千切れてしまいます。
ゆっくり伸ばすとどこまでも伸びてくれます。
ウッドグルーならではのもったりずっしりしたテクスチャーです。
初めはツヤがあるのに、たくさん遊ぶとマットになります。

２倍くらいに膨らみます。
クレイは入って無いけど、クレイスライムみたいな見た目になります。
細かいバチバチがとっても楽しいスライムでもあります。

ホワイトチョコとパンの香りです！
ただ、ウッドグルー自体が香りが強いグルーなので「どちらを先に感じ取るかで香りの感じ方に個人差があると思います」……とスライムジャパン様も仰っていました（引用）
その点ご理解の上ご購入をご検討して頂けましたら幸いです！

【英語 English】
It is a flower garden in spring.
It is a flower garden of memories of one boy and one dog.

This is a wood glue based thick slime.
It's very thick, but it's super oozy.
This is super easy to peel off from your hand.
It has a smooth feel and no stickiness.
You can play without stickiness even when it is not activated.

The main characters are a young man who lives with his parents and his dog.
The young man is curious and has a heart like a young boy.
He and his dog were playing with each other like brothers.

But it's time for him to be adult in his third year of college.
University, TOEIC score, the club he belonged to.
The more he grows up, the more he gets labeled.
Everyone sees the labels, so no one sees his true inside.
He lost sight of himself and lowered his eyes.

Oh? There is a dog at the foot of the lowered line of sight.

"What are you doing? Let's go play soon!"

His dog just wants to play with just one boy.
At that time, he noticed.

"This best friend is looking at my truth."
When I'm with my dog, I can be " one boy "!"

The young man returns to the "boy" only when he is with his dog.

Eventually it was time for the young man to leave his parents' home.
On the day he leaves home, he remembers a warm memory with his dog.

A flowing river, dancing butterflies, white clover flower garden.
The footsteps of one boy and one dog rushing through it.

He swear to his dog.

"I will never forget you and me."

All around him talks about him like this.

"His heart was one boy forever"

happy ever after.

It was a too long back story ... lol
It was a "unchanged" story after a goodbye with his buddy.

This slime has the "unchange" ease of hold before and after it contains air.
You can continue to enjoy the bubble sound even if it fluffs up.

It sticks well to the desk.
If you touch it faster than this video, it will tear.
If you stretch it slowly, it will stretch almost forever.
It is a thick and heavy texture unique to wood glue.
Although it is glossy at first, it becomes a matte when you play a lot.

It swells about twice.
It doesn't contain clay, but it looks like clay slime.
It is also a very fun slime with fine bubble sounds.

The scent is white chocolate and bread!
However, the wood glue itself has a strong scent.
"I think there are individual differences in how you feel the scent."..... Slime Japan said.
I would appreciate it if you could purchase it after understanding this point!

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サブチャンネル【もちよの研究室】はコチラ！
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イヤフォンやヘッドフォンをして聴いて頂くとよりいい音で楽しめるかとおもいますので、是非に😎

また、画面右上のチョンチョンチョンのとこから画質を1080pに設定して動画を見ていただけると、高画質でお楽しみ頂けます💪💪

どうもこんびんは！
もちよすらいむです🧜🏻‍♀️

有名なスライマーさんのスライムのレビューや、自分で作ったスライムの動画などのASMRを中心に、いろいろなジャンルの動画を上げていきたいと思います！

太古の動画や、short ver.の動画、編集実況などは全てインスタグラムのアカウントの方にあります。インスタライブでスライムを触ったりもします。

興味を持ってくだされば、是非インスタアカウントのもチェックして頂きたいです☺️
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